I live in a real land , not a lala land

Dear users please be realistic about who you are, that sure saves your time and mine. Please don't waste your time and mine messaging: if you are not serious and like to live in lala land, if you are not financially and emotionally stable , if your are not fully divorced yet , if your kids still live with you or if you still are financially obligated to your kids, ex-wife , parents,grandparents ECT if you like to work 7 days a week , if you don't have enough time to put an effort into a serious relationship, If you are a smoker (occasional smoking is still smoking)