Please be honest and don’t lie or hide things, because it doesn’t just hurt the other person — it ends up hurting you too. And if you’re here with no real intention and just for fun, please don’t selfishly play with someone else’s feelings. Lying is a red line for me. Please don’t message me if you don’t consider hiding things to be lying, or if you don’t know what you want from a relationship. If your divorce is not fully finalized yet, please do not message me.