Intelligent &versatile persona &tiny of nerdiness, plz read my profile

New in Chicago, moved for educational purposes, originally from Canada, at present are looking for friend since I separated recently so if you are after tall woman I am not one of them I am 5 and 1', if you want kid I am not your type either. Life has taught me that you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them. I've learned- that you can get by on charm for about fifteen minutes. After that, you'd better know something. I've learned that our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for who we become. I've discovered is that when relationships end, we all take different paths in life, but no matter where we go, we take a little of each other where ever we go & ultimately I've learned that without romance ,love gets dry. I am not after some one that has 0 heart for animal, humanity, dislike to be Iranian &his culture but some one simulated with western culture when appreciate own as well. I am not looking for womanizer/ player man that in his 50 or 60 still acting like a teenager, if you have gf, wife cant approach I am not looking for headache. Your height , wealth and education is relevant to me but your common sense or better say "SHOOR" intelligent & Personality is very important to me. And in the end I am not looking for some one that has unhealthy life style &don't do exercise in regular basis . (I am 53 look & stamina like 42) not so attracted over 60 with exception.