Relatively happy, independent with a full time occupation, family oriented, genuinely considerate, and brutally honest. I am proud of my accomplishments and they are nothing you read in the news but they are mine and hard earned. Divorced and amicable with my ex for 2 amazing high schoolers we are still raising 50/50 . Not into shallow gains of any kind, too old for that. Not looking for marriage, been there done that. I am hoping for lasting peaceful companionship.