I look younger then my age ,and my photos up to date . My friends who really know me see me as a bit of a enigma. I am kind and generous, but respect others enough to allow them to make their own mistakes and take pride in their accomplishments. Since i feel successful, and have achieved many of the more superficial goals in life, I can take my time to 'savoir' the little things. Food. Friends. Music. Quiet beauty. What would make it better for me? Sharing the experiences. To love, and be loved. To be understood, and take the time to understand you. I know that sometimes the beginning of a relationship seems the most exciting, but for me the excitement is in the enlightenment. How long does it take to learn about someone else? I think... a lifetime! All of us believe we are special, but to know what makes us special is the real gift. So ... I am an honest family-oriented Person, Living in the U.S. most of my life, relaxed and well-behaved , financially secure, looking for that connection… that 'spark'.