I am 60 and very happy with where I stand in life. I can be a good friend first and foremost, and I’m looking for the same — oneness, honesty and friendship create everything a relationship needs. I have a steady mind and a good heart, very grounded — but with more than enough spark. Life has shaped me into someone strong, yet soft and kind on the surface — always smiling and easygoing. what im looking for__ a self-sufficient, established man easy going with depth, kindness, and above all emotional intelligence. …. I love a gentle gaze meeting mine — the kind that warms your inner world……