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Female
Divorced
Orange, CA
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In their own words

Looking for light, not just sparks

I’m Arna ,a quiet soul with a gentle heart and a curious mind. I love the stillness of nature, the magic of words, and the honesty of a good conversation. I’m someone who values depth over noise, and presence over promises. I’m here to meet real people , not perfect ones. People who know how to listen, how to stay, and how to be soft in a hard world. I believe love is not about finding someone flawless , it’s about choosing each other, even when it’s not easy. I’m not looking for a distraction. I’m looking for a connection that feels like coming home.

Appearance
Hair
Brown
Eyes
Brown
Physique
Average
Height
5'  6"   (168 cm)
Family Roots
Iranian
Race
Middle Eastern
My Lifestyle
Smoking
Non-Smoker
Drinking
Socially
Has Kids
No
Wants Kids
Maybe
Religion
Spiritual
Education
Bachelor's Degree
Occupation
Internet / E-Commerce Technology
Income
Over $100,000
Politics
Some Other Viewpoint
What languages do you speak?
Farsi / Persian, English
Favorite Music
Blues, Classic Rock, Classical, New Age, Rock & Roll, Dance / Electronica / House
Favorites
Favorite Actors
Many
Favorite Actresses
Many
Favorite Artists
Many
Favorite Authors
Rumi, Forough Farrokhzad ,Khalil Gibran , Erich Fromm
Favorite Bands
Everything But The Girl,U2,REM
Favorite Books
The Prophet , Khalil Gibran The Little Prince , Antoine de Saint-Exupéry The Art of Loving - Erich Fromm
Favorite Cities
Sydney -Paris - San Diego
Favorite Colors
Deep Blue ,Gold ,Green
Favorite Country
USA-Iran-Italy
Favorite Drinks
Green Tea ,Matcha Latte , Fresh Lemonade, White Wine
Favorite Fashion Designers
comfortable style
Favorite Fast Foods
Sushi, Mediterranean food
Favorite Magazines
National Geographic
Favorite Comedies
Many
Favorite Horror Movies
Many
Favorite Action Movies
Many
Favorite News Anchor
Many
Favorite Night Clubs
Many
Favorite Place To Be Kissed
many
Favorite Plays
Many
Favorite Sports Teams
Many
Favorite Quote From A Movie
Many
Favorite Restaurants
Many
Favorite Songs At The Moment
Many
Favorite Sports
Many
Favorite Stocks
Many
Favorite TV Comedies
Many
Favorite TV Dramas
Many
Favorite TV News Sources
Many
Favorite Foods
Many
Favorite Styles Of Music
Many
Interests
Animals
Yes
Art
Yes
Barbecues
Yes
Bars
Yes
Basketball
Yes
Board Games
YEs
Business Finance
Yes
Camping
Yes
Card Games
Yes
Cars
Yes
Community Service
Yes
Cooking
Yes
Dancing
Yes
Dating
Yes
Exercise
Yes
Food
YEs
Gardening
Yes
Internet
Yes
Movies
Yes
Pets
Yes
Photography
Yes
Psychology
Yes
Reading
Yes
Rugs
Yes
Shopping
Yes
Singing
Yes
Sky Diving
Yes
Snowboarding
Yes
Soccer
Yes
Stock Market
Yes
Technology
Yes
Television
Yes
Tennis
Yes
Traveling
Yes
Video Games
Yes
Walking
Yes
Writing
Yes
Personality
Adventurousness Average
Affectionateness Average
Trustingness Average
Confidence Very Confident
Independence Very Independent
Mood Somewhat Chill
Romance Somewhat Unromantic
Sociability Very Extroverted
Thought Process Somewhat Analytical
Tolerance Unbending
Lifestyle
Dress Somewhat Casual
Energy Average
Go Party Often
Religion Small Part
Neatness Average
Punctuality Always On Time
Spending Average
Work Ethic Laid Back
Insights
Describe the perfect evening.
A quiet evening with good music, soft light, and real conversation. No rush. No performance. Just two people being themselves ,laughing, sharing,
Describe your perfect weekend.
A slow morning with tea and a book, a walk by the ocean. Good food, good company, and time to just be , without plans, without pressure
Do you believe in love at first sight?
Not exactly. I believe in recognition at first sight , when something in you recognizes something in them. But real love? That grows in the quiet moments, in the choices we make to stay,
How many kids would you like to have?
-
How important is someone's physical appearance to you?
It's not the most important thing. I'm drawn to presence, warmth, and authenticity. I believe true attraction grows from who someone is , not just how they look
If you could have one super power, what would it be and why?
To truly understand people , not just their words, but their silence. Because I believe the deepest connections are made in the space between what is said and what is felt.
What is the purpose of marriage?
To grow together. To witness each other's becoming. To choose each other , not just once, but every day , even when it's hard.
What is the most important lesson that you've learned?
That love is not about perfection. It's about staying. It's about choosing each other after the disappointment, after the silence, after the fight. Love is a verb , not a feeling.
What do your friends like about you most?
They say I listen deeply, I show up when it matters, and I love without expecting anything in return. They say I make them feel seen
What do your friends tease you about the most?
They say I overthink things , especially when it comes to matters of the heart. And they’re probably right. But I’d rather overthink than pretend I don't feel
What gets on your nerves?
Dishonesty. People who say one thing and mean another. I value clarity and kindness , and I can't stand when someone hides behind silence instead of truth.
What is the most important thing in a relationship?
Emotional safety , knowing you can be your real self without fear of being judged, abandoned, or dismissed. Everything else grows from that."
What's the best age to get married?
There's no 'best age.' The best time is when you've done your own inner work, when you know who you are, and when you've found someone who wants to grow with you , not just next to you
What turns you off?
Arrogance. Disrespect. People who think vulnerability is weakness. And anyone who treats love like a game,I've seen that before. I'm not interested in repeating that lesson
What turns you on?
Honest eyes. A quiet mind. Someone who listens between the words. Humor. Depth. A man who knows how to be soft and strong at the same time
What do you hope to be doing five years from now?
Still learning, still growing, still loving , but with more peace, more clarity, and deeper connections. Maybe with a partner who truly sees me. Maybe writing more. Definitely still curious."
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