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Divorced
Irvine, CA
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In their own words

looking for a woman who is intelligent, thoughtful, and emotionally mature

I am an ordinary person with all the strengths and imperfections that come with being human. Throughout my life, I have tried to live responsibly and remain committed to the obligations and commitments I choose to undertake. One of the values I have always tried to uphold is keeping my word. I believe that a person's character is reflected not only in what they say, but in whether they follow through on their promises. To the best of my ability, I have always tried to honor my commitments, act with integrity, and remain faithful to the promises I make.

Appearance
Hair
White or Gray
Eyes
Brown
Physique
Average
Height
5'  7"   (170 cm)
Family Roots
Iranian
Race
White / Caucasian
My Lifestyle
Smoking
Non-Smoker
Drinking
Socially
Has Kids
Yes
Wants Kids
No
Religion
Atheist
Education
Bachelor's Degree
Occupation
Other
Income
Over $100,000
Politics
Does Not Matter
What languages do you speak?
English
Favorite Music
Classical
Favorites
Favorite Actors
I admire many, Can not choose one.
Favorite Actresses
Many. I can not choose one.
Favorite Artists
I have great admiration for Michelangelo, Picasso, and many of the world's greatest painters and sculptors. I don't like ranking people by saying one is better than another. Each has something unique to offer.
Favorite Athletes
Hard to answer. Many.
Favorite Authors
The same goes for writers. I enjoy reading many authors, from Jean-Jacques Rousseau to great Iranian writers and poets. Choosing only one or two would be impossible.
Favorite Bands
Bee Gees and some others
Favorite Books
Shahnaameh, Divaan e Hafez, Golestaan e Sa'di ...
Favorite Cities
I like old cities. The history is there.
Favorite Clothing Stores
No Idea
Favorite Colors
Depends on where to see .I love all colors.
Favorite Country
Iran
Favorite Drinks
All are good
Favorite Fashion Designers
No Idea
Favorite Fast Foods
I am not a fast food fan. If necessary, I In & Out.
Favorite Magazines
....
Favorite Comedies
Charlie Chaplin's
Favorite Dramas
Many...
Favorite Action Movies
Many...
Favorite News Anchor
They just read the news. Nothing special about them.
Favorite Night Clubs
I never went to a Night Club
Favorite Place To Be Kissed
Any where I feel it needs to happen.
Favorite Plays
Classic Dramas
Favorite Politicians
Most of them play Under Influence....
Favorite Sports Teams
Many of them are alright. No favorite(s)...
Favorite Quote From A Movie
Tomorrow is promised to No One.
Favorite Restaurants
Recently I did not go to any of them. No Idea.
Favorite Songs At The Moment
Blue Music.
Favorite Sports
Soccer and some others
Favorite Stocks
I do not trust stocks.
Favorite TV Comedies
Not watching Comedies...
Favorite TV Dramas
Many-I can not choose one.
Favorite TV News Sources
None. Normally they broadcast what they like to be heard
Favorite Foods
Noon o Panir O Sabzi
Favorite Styles Of Music
All kinds of beautiful music... no limit
Interests
Acting
I'm not sure what this question means, so I can't really answer it.
Animals
I love animals. I don't like zoos because I believe wild animals should live freely in nature, not in captivity.
Antiques
I love genuine antiques—objects that truly carry history and tell a story. I'm not interested in recently made items that are simply marketed as antiques.
Art
I love all forms of art and deeply admire artists.
Astrology
I don't know enough about astronomy to have an opinion.
Barbecues
I enjoy barbecues with friends, but I'm not someone who usually organizes them myself.
Bars
If this means places that serve alcohol, I don't usually go to bars, but I have no objection to people drinking responsibly. It is fun for some.
Basketball
I enjoy watching basketball, especially when talented teams play. I appreciate skill more than loyalty to one particular team.
Biology
I'm not sure how to answer.
Board Games
I'm not familiar with board games.
Business Finance
Business and finance play an essential role in today's world and influence many important decisions.
Camping
I'm not really a camper, but I understand why people enjoy spending time in nature, sleeping under the stars, and appreciating the outdoors.
Card Games
I played card games as a child, but I stopped when I was around 13 or 14.
Cars
I appreciate any well-designed, beautiful car. I'm not particularly interested in owning extremely expensive luxury or exotic cars.
Children
I love children. I see them as little angels walking on earth.
Circus
Some sort of Art
Comedy
I enjoy good, intelligent comedy.
Community Service
If I can do something to help the community I live in, it makes me happy.
Cooking
I enjoy cooking very much.
Dancing
I absolutely love dancing. Unfortunately, I never had the opportunity to learn. I admire people who dance beautifully and wish dancing had been more accessible where I grew up.
Dating
Dating is wonderful, especially when shared with someone special.
Dogs and Cats
I like animals very much, but I prefer them outdoors rather than inside my home.
Drawing
I admire people who can draw, although I don't have that talent myself
Electronics
I'm not sure what this question is asking
Exercise
Exercise is one of the best things a person can do if they have the time
Food
I love healthy, delicious food from every culture and country.
Football
I love soccer. I never played seriously, but I've always admired great teams and great players.
Gambling
I've never enjoyed gambling and have never participated in it.
Gardening
Gardening is wonderful. Flowers and plants bring people closer to nature. I believe plants have a kind of spirit and enrich human life.
Guns
I'm completely against private gun ownership. I believe weapons should only be in the hands of responsible authorities.
Internet
I see the internet as one of humanity's greatest services, especially when it is used for positive purposes such as learning, communication, and helping others.
Live Concerts
I love live concerts and have enjoyed every one I've attended.
Math
I've loved mathematics since childhood.
Medicine
Medicine is one of the noblest professions when it is practiced to help humanity rather than simply to make money.
Movies
I love movies. Cinema is one of the greatest modern art forms. It can entertain, educate, inspire, and sometimes, unfortunately, be misused. At its best, cinema is a remarkable expression of human creativity.
Opera
I absolutely love opera. Hearing great voices perform moves me deeply. Photography: I consider photography a beautiful art form.
Painting
Painting is one of the purest forms of artistic expression. It comes from the imagination and creativity of extraordinary people. Those who possess this gift have something truly unique within them, and I deeply admire their talent.
Pets
Never had them. But I love animals. We share this world with them.
Philosophy
I believe it is impossible to live without philosophy. Throughout history, I've always respected great philosophers, even when I didn't fully understand or agree with them. Brilliant minds are the torchbearers of humanity, helping us better understand ourselves and the world.
Photography
I consider photography a beautiful art form.
Politics
Politics is an ancient and important field. Unfortunately, in today's world, people who are better at making grand promises, acting convincingly, or misleading others often receive the most attention. History has shown that this frequently leads to negative—and sometimes disastrous—results.
Psychology
Psychology is valuable when practiced by knowledgeable and well-trained professionals who genuinely help people.
Radio
Radio has served humanity well for generations. It remains a valuable way to inform, educate, and entertain people.
Reading
Reading has been one of my greatest passions since childhood. I rarely go to sleep without reading.
Religion
Religion can be a beautiful force when it helps people grow spiritually and become better human beings. But when it is used to manipulate people, gain wealth, or exploit their beliefs, it becomes something harmful.
Rugs
I especially admire Persian rugs. They are one of the greatest forms of Iranian art.
Running
Running is excellent for health. It improves circulation, strengthens the body, and clears the mind.
School
I've loved school since I was a child. Before each school year started, I would eagerly wait for the first day and could hardly sleep the night before.
Shopping
Shopping can be enjoyable. Sometimes it's simply a pleasant way to relax and take a break from the routines and pressures of daily life.
Singing
I love singing, even though I don't have a good voice myself. I deeply appreciate talented singers in every language and culture.
Sky Diving
I've never tried it, so I don't really have an opinion.
Snowboarding
I don't know enough about it to have an opinion.
Soccer
I love soccer. It's one of the most exciting and beautiful sports in the world.
Stock Market
It can be rewarding for people who truly understand it, but I think most ordinary people lose money.
Technology
I love soccer. It's one of the most exciting and beautiful sports in the world.
Television
I enjoy television when it offers meaningful, high-quality movies and programs. Time is too valuable to waste on poor entertainment.
Tennis
Tennis is an exciting, energetic, and elegant sport that I enjoy watching.
Theater
I love theater. Live performances have always fascinated me.
Traveling
Traveling is one of life's greatest pleasures, especially when it's shared with the right companion. Exploring new places broadens the mind and creates unforgettable memories.
Video Games
I've never really played video games.
Walking
I enjoy walking, especially with good company. Walking in nature, observing beautiful scenery, and having meaningful conversations help me think more clearly and appreciate life even more.
Writing
Writing has been a lifelong passion. Since childhood, I've loved reading and writing. Beautiful literature affects me profoundly.
Lifestyle
Dress Somewhat Casual
Energy Very High
Go Party Rarely
Religion Not a Part At All
Neatness Average
Punctuality Always On Time
Spending Somewhat Spendthrift
Work Ethic Driven
Insights
Describe the perfect evening.
To me, a perfect evening has very little to do with where I am or what I’m doing. It has everything to do with who is beside me. If I’m with someone I genuinely care about, the simplest moments become unforgettable. We could be sitting together with a cup of coffee or a glass of wine, watching a beautiful movie, talking about life, love, dreams, and memories. We could read poetry to each other or simply speak from the heart. I believe that when two people truly connect, even silence becomes meaningful. And if I happen to be alone, I don’t see that as a tragedy. I try to make peace with the evening in my own way—perhaps by reading a good book, listening to beautiful music, watching a thoughtful film, or simply enjoying the quiet. Every evening has its own character, and its beauty depends on the state of our hearts as much as our surroundings. For me, a perfect evening isn’t about luxury or excitement. It’s about warmth, sincerity, and sharing a moment that feels real.
Describe your perfect weekend.
A perfect weekend, to me, also depends on who I’m sharing it with. If I’m with the right person, almost any plan can become enjoyable. What matters isn’t the activity itself, but the understanding, compatibility, and connection between two people. We might spend the entire day at home, enjoying each other’s company and simply being together. Or we might go for a walk along the beach, have lunch at a nice restaurant, watch a good movie, explore somewhere new, do a little shopping, and end the afternoon sitting together at a quiet café, watching the sunset. Then, after a beautiful day, we’d go home, sit close to each other, and talk—about our lives, our dreams, our memories, and the little moments we shared that day. The best conversations are the ones that come from mutual respect, understanding, kindness, and a sense of peace. Of course, there isn’t only one version of a perfect weekend. It all depends on who you’re with. The right person can turn even the simplest moments into lasting memories, while the wrong company can make the most beautiful places feel empty. For me, happiness has never been about having an exciting schedule. It’s about sharing ordinary moments with someone who makes them feel extraordinary.
Do you believe in love at first sight?
Do I believe in love at first sight? My answer is both yes and no. I believe that the first glance is the spark of love. If that spark doesn’t catch—if it doesn’t ignite something deep inside you, like a tiny flame finding dry wood—then it’s difficult for anything meaningful to grow from it. That first look matters. It should awaken something in your heart. It should bring warmth to your soul. Your heartbeat changes, and for a brief moment, you feel as if you’ve seen this person somewhere before—not in real life, but perhaps in your dreams or somewhere deep within your imagination. That feeling alone is not love. Love is built over time through trust, understanding, respect, and shared experiences. But that first spark is essential. To me, it’s like the key that unlocks the door to a relationship. So, while I don’t believe that love is complete at first sight, I do believe that a single glance can be the beautiful beginning of a love story.
How many kids would you like to have?
I absolutely love children. To me, children are like little angels on Earth. We may not be able to see their wings, but when they run, laugh, play, and fill the world with their innocent energy, it feels as though those invisible wings suddenly become visible to the heart. If life had allowed it, I would have loved to have many children. Unfortunately, life also comes with practical realities. Raising children requires love, time, patience, financial stability, and the ability to provide them with a good education, proper care, and every opportunity to grow into happy and responsible adults. Because of that, most people have to make reasonable choices about the size of their family. I have been fortunate to have children, and they are among the greatest blessings of my life. I don’t believe children exist to fulfill their parents’ dreams, but I do believe they often accomplish things that fill us with pride and joy. Watching them discover their own talents, pursue their own passions, and build lives that are meaningful to them is one of the greatest rewards of being a parent. So, in my heart, I think the more children a family can lovingly and responsibly raise, the better. Every child is a gift—but every child also deserves the love, guidance, opportunities, and security they need to thrive.
How important is someone's physical appearance to you?
Physical appearance is certainly important. I think almost everyone notices beauty at first sight, and there’s nothing wrong with that. But to me, what matters even more is a person’s character and the beauty of their heart. Someone may be exceptionally attractive on the outside, but if they have a dishonest, selfish, or unkind heart, their beauty quickly loses its meaning—not only for the person beside them, but ultimately for themselves as well. On the other hand, someone who may not seem extraordinarily beautiful at first can become deeply attractive because of their kindness, wisdom, compassion, and sincerity. I’ve always believed that a beautiful soul eventually reveals itself in a person’s face. Inner beauty has a way of shining through, softening expressions, brightening smiles, and making someone more attractive with time. So yes, outward beauty naturally catches our attention. But it is inner beauty that captures the heart and keeps it there.
If you could have one super power, what would it be and why?
If I had the power to change one thing in the world, I would choose to make people’s hearts kinder. I would erase jealousy, replace hatred with compassion, and teach us to overlook each other’s imperfections instead of constantly judging them. I would help people respect one another and stop measuring human worth by money, status, or material possessions. If such a power were mine, I would try to create a more peaceful world—a world where people could truly enjoy the short time they are given between two infinities. Even if we live for a hundred years, that is almost nothing compared to the age of the universe—not even a fraction of a second. So why spend that precious time in anger, greed, or conflict? I wish every person could experience the simple joys of being alive: the beauty of nature, the wonder of the universe, meaningful relationships, love, kindness, and inner peace. I hope every soul has the chance to feel fulfilled rather than burdened by hatred or fear. My dream for humanity is simple: an end to wars, an end to selfishness, an end to jealousy, and the gradual growth of everything that is good. Goodness is like wheat planted in fertile soil. At first, nothing seems to happen. But with time, patience, and care, it takes root, grows stronger, and eventually becomes a golden field that can nourish countless lives. Sometimes I wish there were a power capable of planting those seeds of goodness in every human heart, so that one day, these hopes would no longer be dreams, but the way we all choose to live.
What is the purpose of marriage?
To me, the true purpose of marriage is for two souls, living in two separate bodies, to gradually become one in spirit. That is my hope for every successful marriage. Life is short, and I believe there is no greater blessing than having someone who truly understands your heart. A husband and wife should learn to read each other’s unspoken feelings, share each other’s joys and sorrows, and never stop trying to ease one another’s burdens. They should nurture their love, appreciate each other, and never take one another for granted. Marriage is like setting out on a long journey together. Along the way, there will be beautiful moments, unexpected challenges, disappointments, victories, and countless obstacles. No couple can avoid them. But when two people walk that path with mutual love, respect, understanding, and compassion—when they support one another, speak honestly, listen carefully, and face life’s difficulties as a team—they can overcome those obstacles together. And in the end, they may reach something more valuable than success or comfort: a deep sense of peace, knowing they have shared a meaningful life with someone who was not only their partner, but also their closest friend, their safe place, and the companion of their soul. To me, that is the true purpose of marriage.
What is the most important lesson that you've learned?
Perhaps the most important lesson I have learned through all these years is this: We live by our hopes, but sooner or later, we are confronted by reality. And reality does not always ask for our permission—it simply presents itself, whether we like it or not. I don’t believe we are born to suffer. Yet suffering is often part of the raw material from which wisdom, resilience, and personal growth are formed. The greatest lesson life has taught me is not to deny reality or waste my energy fighting what cannot be changed. Instead, I try to understand it, accept it, and do my best to improve whatever is within my power. But when difficulties come from forces beyond my control—whether we call them nature, fate, God, the universe, or simply life itself—I have learned that there comes a moment when acceptance is wiser than resistance. Acceptance does not mean giving up. It means recognizing the limits of our control, protecting our peace of mind, and moving forward with dignity despite what we cannot change. I still believe in hope. I still believe in effort. But I have learned that a meaningful life is built by balancing our dreams with reality. Because in the end, life is not a wish. It is a reality—and learning to embrace that reality may be the greatest wisdom of all.
What do your friends like about you most?
It’s always a little uncomfortable to list your own good qualities, because it can sound like you’re praising yourself. So instead, I’d rather describe the qualities I believe a true friend should have—and simply hope that I possess at least some of them. To me, a real friend is loyal and dependable. They are honest, trustworthy, and able to keep a confidence. They are kind, compassionate, and willing to help whenever they can. If they have the ability or the resources to make a friend’s life a little easier, they don’t hesitate to do so. I also believe that true friendship should help both people grow. A good friend doesn’t just share good times; they encourage you to become a better person. They bring out the best in you, and together, both lives are enriched. I’ve always felt that whenever we sincerely help another person, we are also helping ourselves grow. Every act of kindness strengthens our own character and nourishes our spirit. I certainly don’t claim to be perfect, but I hope these are qualities that, at least to some degree, can be found in me.
What do your friends tease you about the most?
When my friends want to tease me, they often say, “You work too much.” And honestly, they are right. But the truth is, working this much has not always been a choice that came purely from my own desire. Sometimes life puts responsibilities in front of us that we have to accept. When we make commitments and take on obligations, we have a responsibility to honor them. That has been my reality until now. I have continued working because I believe in fulfilling my responsibilities and keeping my promises. I hope that, with time, circumstances will become easier and allow me to have a more balanced life—to have more time for myself, for the people I care about, and for enjoying the simple pleasures that life offers.
What gets on your nerves?
The things that can ruin my day, even from the very beginning of the morning, are dishonesty, arrogance, selfishness, violating other people’s rights, and refusing to acknowledge the goodness or achievements of others—even when those people may not be close to us or may even be our opponents.
What is the most important thing in a relationship?
In a healthy relationship, the most important foundations are honesty, sincerity, loyalty, and avoiding anything that could mislead or hurt the other person. Trust is built when two people are truthful with each other, respect each other’s feelings, and never intentionally create confusion or doubt. Without honesty and faithfulness, a relationship cannot develop the depth, security, and peace that two people deserve.
What's the best age to get married?
In my opinion, finding the right person is far more important than focusing only on the age at which someone should get married. The right person can make many of the other factors—age, timing, and circumstances—less important. When two people truly have compatibility, understanding, respect, and love, they can build something meaningful together. But if the right person is not there, even getting married at what is considered the “perfect” age may not lead to a successful or fulfilling relationship. For me, the quality of the person you choose to share your life with matters much more than the number of years you have lived.
What turns you off?
What touches my soul the most is honesty and authenticity. What hurts me deeply is lying, unnecessary noise, and pretending to be someone you are not. I believe people are most beautiful when they are true to themselves. Every person, when they live within their own reality and embrace who they truly are, has a unique beauty and a quality that makes them worthy of being loved. To me, sincerity is far more attractive than perfection. A genuine person, with all their strengths and imperfections, is always more meaningful than someone who is only trying to create an image for others.
What turns you on?
What gives my soul its strength and serenity is goodness in all its forms. Goodness in words, in deeds, in thoughts, in kindness, and in the gentle way people treat one another. Whatever shape it takes, true goodness has the power to reach deep into my heart, warm it like sunlight, and awaken my spirit. In one word: goodness.
What do you hope to be doing five years from now?
When I think about what the next five years will bring, I can only speak about my hopes. What will actually happen is something that only time can reveal. I see myself as a passenger on a ship sailing across a vast ocean. Sometimes the sea is calm, the journey is peaceful, and the sailing is easy. But at other times, storms arrive, bringing powerful waves and challenges that test the strength of the ship. I don’t know whether this ship I am traveling in will be strong enough to withstand everything that the future may bring. I cannot predict all the storms or all the calm waters ahead. But I do hope that the coming years bring more kindness, peace, and good things not only for me, but for everyone.
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