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Male
Separated
Hoboken, NJ
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In their own words

Looking for real connection, not perfection.

I grew up with strong family values and a deep appreciation for culture, good food, and meaningful connections. Cooking is one of my biggest passions. I’ve been cooking for myself since I was a teenager, and over the years it’s become something I truly love. I enjoy experimenting in the kitchen and having friends over to share good food, long conversations, and laughter around the table. Professionally, I’m a structural engineer and serve as a technical director. I enjoy what I do, but I firmly believe life should be about more than work. Outside of my career, being a dad is my most important role, and I’m proud of the balance I’ve built between responsibility and enjoying life. I don’t currently have a pet, but I truly love dogs, and being around them instantly puts me in a good mood. On weekends, you’ll usually find me spending time with my son, trying a new restaurant, cooking something a bit ambitious at home, getting outside, or unwinding with a good movie or series. I appreciate humor, warmth, and genuine conversation. Friends would describe me as thoughtful, loyal, grounded, and quietly funny once you get to know me. I value honesty, kindness, emotional maturity, and laughter. I’m looking for a long-term relationship and believe the best connections are built gradually and naturally. What matters most to me is finding someone genuine, emotionally aware, and kind, someone who values communication, connection, and building something real together.

Appearance
Hair
Black
Eyes
Black
Physique
Average
Height
5'  8"   (173 cm)
Family Roots
Iranian
Race
Middle Eastern
My Lifestyle
Smoking
Non-Smoker
Drinking
Socially
Has Kids
Yes
Wants Kids
Maybe
Religion
Spiritual
Education
Graduate Student
Occupation
Technical Science / Engineering
Income
Over $100,000
Exercise
Occasionally
Politics
Middle Of The Road
What languages do you speak?
Farsi / Persian, English
Favorite Music
I'll tell you later
Favorites
Favorite Actors
Daniel Day-Lewis
Favorite Artists
Leonardo da Vinci
Favorite Bands
Scorpions, Metallica, and Led Zeppelin.
Favorite Cities
New York City
Favorite Colors
Blue
Favorite Country
United States
Favorite Drinks
Tequila
Favorite Fast Foods
Nothing!
Favorite Comedies
Favorite comedians: George Carlin, Dave Chappelle, Larry David.
Favorite Foods
Sushi
Interests
Animals
I love being around animals, especially dogs and cats—they instantly make me smile.
Children
I enjoy spending time with children—being a parent has made that especially meaningful to me.
Cooking
Cooking is one of my favorite ways to unwind and connect. I’ve been cooking for myself since my teens, and over time it’s become more than a skill—it’s a passion. I love experimenting with flavors, especially seafood and homemade dishes, and there’s nothing better than cooking for friends and enjoying good conversation around the table.
Dogs and Cats
Love them!
Food
I love food and dining—trying new restaurants, sharing meals, and enjoying good company.
Gambling
Gambling isn’t my thing.
Painting
Painting has always been something I’m drawn to. I enjoy the process as much as the result—the quiet focus, the creativity, and the sense of freedom it brings. If money weren’t an issue, I’d happily pursue painting full-time and see where that path leads.
Politics
I’m not interested in politics and prefer to focus on things that bring people together.
Sky Diving
Skydiving is on my bucket list. I like experiences that push comfort zones.
Stock Market
I’ve had my wins and losses in the stock market—part of the learning process.
Writing
No interest in it, and I’ll be the first to admit I’m terrible at it
Personality
Adventurousness Somewhat Daring
Affectionateness Average
Trustingness Average
Confidence Very Confident
Independence Very Independent
Mood Somewhat Chill
Romance Somewhat Romantic
Sociability Somewhat Introverted
Thought Process Very Analytical
Tolerance Compliant
Lifestyle
Dress Somewhat Formal
Energy Average
Go Party Sometimes
Religion Not a Part At All
Neatness Super Neat
Punctuality Always Early
Spending Somewhat Spendthrift
Work Ethic Driven
Insights
Describe the perfect evening.
A perfect evening is cooking a good meal, sharing it with someone I enjoy, talking about anything and everything, and ending the night relaxed and content.
Describe your perfect weekend.
Good food, good company, and time that doesn’t feel rushed.
Do you believe in love at first sight?
I believe in attraction at first sight—and love that grows with time, trust, and real connection.
How important is someone's physical appearance to you?
Physical appearance is important, but personality, kindness, and emotional connection are what really make someone attractive to me
If you could have one super power, what would it be and why?
If I had a superpower, it would be instantly turning an awkward moment into a good laugh.
What is the most important lesson that you've learned?
The most important lesson I’ve learned is that you can’t control everything—only how you show up and treat people
What gets on your nerves?
People who speak confidently about things they don’t actually know.
What do you hope to be doing five years from now?
In five years, I hope to be in a meaningful, stable relationship built on trust, respect, and laughter.
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