All the girls in these dating sits whether they had relation or not are looking to market themselves for the highest price and hate to leave anything on the table. Well I have news for you, Life is about giving ... once you give , it is like investment, then it comes to you, it is not about what so and so can do for me, just like president kennedy said " ask yourself what I can do for my country not what my country can do for me." Please tell me at your age what are you offering me, your looks with alot of makeup or your saggy chest or not being able to get pregnant naturally or your 5 kids from your previous marriage or looking for somebody to take care of your health issues.I am sure most of you are well off by the amount of child support and alimony and all the money that you drained out of your poor ex. Maybe you are demanding the kind of luck that Meghan Markle had. So go and patch thing up with your ex and make life easier on your kids and yourself